← Westminster Larger Catechism · Q. 138

What are the duties required in the seventh commandment?

⚖ Law & Sanctification

The duties required in the seventh commandment are, chastity in body, mind, affections,1 words,2 and behavior;3 and the preservation of it in ourselves and others;4 watchfulness over the eyes and all the senses;5 temperance,6 keeping of chaste company,7 modesty in apparel;8 marriage by those that have not the gift of continency,9 conjugal love,10 and cohabitation;11 diligent labor in our callings;12 shunning all occasions of uncleanness, and resisting temptations thereunto.13

Scripture proofs

The Westminster Assembly's proof texts (KJV). The bracketed numbers in the answer above mark the clause each set of references supports; expand a row to read the verses.

1 1 Thess. 4:4; Job 31:1; 1 Cor. 7:34
1 Thess. 4:4

That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;

Job 31:1

I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?

1 Cor. 7:34

There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

2 Col. 4:6
Col. 4:6

Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.

3 1 Pet. 2:3
1 Pet. 2:3

If so be ye have tasted that the Lord is gracious.

4 1 Cor. 7:2, 35–36
1 Cor. 7:2, 35–36

1 Cor. 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

1 Cor. 7:35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

1 Cor. 7:36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

5 Job 31:1
Job 31:1

I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?

6 Acts 24:24
Acts 24:24

And after certain days, when Felix came with his wife Drusilla, which was a Jewess, he sent for Paul, and heard him concerning the faith in Christ.

7 Prov. 2:16–20
Prov. 2:16–20

Prov. 2:16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;

Prov. 2:17 Which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God.

Prov. 2:18 For her house inclineth unto death, and her paths unto the dead.

Prov. 2:19 None that go unto her return again, neither take they hold of the paths of life.

Prov. 2:20 That thou mayest walk in the way of good men, and keep the paths of the righteous.

8 1 Tim. 2:9
1 Tim. 2:9

In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

9 1 Cor. 7:2, 9
1 Cor. 7:2, 9

1 Cor. 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

1 Cor. 7:9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

10 Prov. 5:19–20
Prov. 5:19–20

Prov. 5:19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

Prov. 5:20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

11 1 Pet. 3:7
1 Pet. 3:7

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

12 Prov. 31:11, 27–28
Prov. 31:11, 27–28

Prov. 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

Prov. 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

Prov. 31:28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

13 Prov. 5:8; Gen. 39:8–10
Prov. 5:8

Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:

Gen. 39:8–10

Gen. 39:8 But he refused, and said unto his master’s wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand;

Gen. 39:9 There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?

Gen. 39:10 And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.

This doctrine across the Standards

Where the Confession and the Westminster Shorter Catechism treat the same matter, so the question can be studied alongside its parallel statements.

In the Westminster Confession

XIX.1 God gave to Adam a law, as a covenant of works, by which he bound him and all …

God gave to Adam a law, as a covenant of works, by which he bound him and all his posterity to personal, entire, exact, and perpetual obedience; promised life upon the fulfilling, and threatened death upon the breach of it; and endued him with power and ability to keep it.

→ XIX.1 · Of the Law of God
XIX.2 This law, after his fall, continued to be a perfect rule of righteousness; and, as such, was delivered …

This law, after his fall, continued to be a perfect rule of righteousness; and, as such, was delivered by God upon mount Sinai in ten commandments, and written in two tables; the first four commandments containing our duty towards God, and the other six our duty to man.

→ XIX.2 · Of the Law of God
XIX.3 Beside this law, commonly called moral, God was pleased to give to the people of Israel, as a …

Beside this law, commonly called moral, God was pleased to give to the people of Israel, as a Church under age, ceremonial laws, containing several typical ordinances, partly of worship, prefiguring Christ, his graces, actions, sufferings, and benefits; and partly holding forth divers instructions of moral duties. All which ceremonial laws are now abrogated under the New Testament.

→ XIX.3 · Of the Law of God
XIX.4 To them also, as a body politic, he gave sundry judicial laws, which expired together with the State …

To them also, as a body politic, he gave sundry judicial laws, which expired together with the State of that people, not obliging any other, now, further than the general equity thereof may require.

→ XIX.4 · Of the Law of God
XIX.5 The moral law doth forever bind all, as well justified persons as others, to the obedience thereof; and …

The moral law doth forever bind all, as well justified persons as others, to the obedience thereof; and that not only in regard of the matter contained in it, but also in respect of the authority of God the Creator who gave it. Neither doth Christ in the gospel any way dissolve, but much strengthen, this obligation.

→ XIX.5 · Of the Law of God
XIX.6 Although true believers be not under the law as a covenant of works, to be thereby justified or …

Although true believers be not under the law as a covenant of works, to be thereby justified or condemned; yet is it of great use to them, as well as to others; in that, as a rule of life, informing them of the will of God and their duty, it directs and binds them to walk accordingly; discovering also the sinful pollutions of their nature, hearts, and lives; so as, examining themselves thereby, they may come to further conviction of, humiliation for, and hatred against sin; together with a clearer sight of the need they have of Christ, and the perfection of his obedience. It is likewise of use to the regenerate, to restrain their corruptions, in that it forbids sin; and the threatenings of it serve to show what even their sins deserve, and what afflictions in this life they may expect for them, although freed from the curse thereof threatened in the law. The promises of it, in like manner, show them God's approbation of obedience, and what blessings they may expect upon the performance thereof; although not as due to them by the law as a covenant of works: so as a man's doing good, and refraining from evil, because the law encourageth to the one, and deterreth from the other, is no evidence of his being under the law, and not under grace.

→ XIX.6 · Of the Law of God
XIX.7 Neither are the forementioned uses of the law contrary to the grace of the gospel, but do sweetly …

Neither are the forementioned uses of the law contrary to the grace of the gospel, but do sweetly comply with it: the Spirit of Christ subduing and enabling the will of man to do that freely and cheerfully which the will of God, revealed in the law, requireth to be done.

→ XIX.7 · Of the Law of God
XXIV.1 Marriage is to be between one man and one woman: neither is it lawful for any man to …

Marriage is to be between one man and one woman: neither is it lawful for any man to have more than one wife, nor for any woman to have more than one husband at the same time.

→ XXIV.1 · Of Marriage and Divorce
XXIV.2 Marriage was ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife; for the increase of mankind with a …

Marriage was ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife; for the increase of mankind with a legitimate issue, and of the Church with an holy seed; and for preventing of uncleanness.

→ XXIV.2 · Of Marriage and Divorce
XXIV.3 It is lawful for all sorts of people to marry who are able with judgment to give their …

It is lawful for all sorts of people to marry who are able with judgment to give their consent. Yet it is the duty of Christians to marry only in the Lord. And therefore, such as profess the true reformed religion should not marry with infidels, Papists, or other idolaters: neither should such as are godly be unequally yoked, by marrying with such as are notoriously wicked in their life, or maintain damnable heresies.

→ XXIV.3 · Of Marriage and Divorce
XXIV.4 Marriage ought not to be within the degrees of consanguinity or affinity forbidden in the Word; nor can …

Marriage ought not to be within the degrees of consanguinity or affinity forbidden in the Word; nor can such incestuous marriages ever be made lawful by any law of man, or consent of parties, so as those persons may live together as man and wife. The man may not marry any of his wife's kindred nearer in blood than he may of his own, nor the woman of her husband's kindred nearer in blood than of her own.

→ XXIV.4 · Of Marriage and Divorce
XXIV.5 Adultery or fornication, committed after a contract, being detected before marriage, giveth just occasion to the innocent party …

Adultery or fornication, committed after a contract, being detected before marriage, giveth just occasion to the innocent party to dissolve that contract. In the case of adultery after marriage, it is lawful for the innocent party to sue out a divorce, and after the divorce to marry another, as if the offending party were dead.

→ XXIV.5 · Of Marriage and Divorce

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In the Westminster Shorter Catechism

Q.39 What is the duty which God requireth of man?

The duty which God requireth of man, is obedience to his revealed will.

→ Open Q.39
Q.40 What did God at first reveal to man for the rule of his obedience?

The rule which God at first revealed to man for his obedience, was the moral law.

→ Open Q.40
Q.41 Wherein is the moral law summarily comprehended?

The moral law is summarily comprehended in the ten commandments.

→ Open Q.41
Q.42 What is the sum of the ten commandments?

The sum of the ten commandments is, To love the Lord our God with all our heart, with all our soul, with all our strength, and with all our mind; and our neighbour as ourselves.

→ Open Q.42
Q.43 What is the preface to the ten commandments?

The preface to the ten commandments is in these words, I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.

→ Open Q.43
Q.44 What doth the preface to the ten commandments teach us?

The preface to the ten commandments teacheth us, That because God is the Lord, and our God, and Redeemer, therefore we are bound to keep all his commandments.

→ Open Q.44
Q.45 Which is the first commandment?

The first commandment is, Thou shalt have no other gods before me.

→ Open Q.45
Q.46 What is required in the first commandment?

The first commandment requireth us to know and acknowledge God to be the only true God, and our God; and to worship and glorify him accordingly.

→ Open Q.46
Q.47 What is forbidden in the first commandment?

The first commandment forbiddeth the denying, or not worshipping and glorifying the true God as God, and our God; and the giving of that worship and glory to any other, which is due to him alone.

→ Open Q.47
Q.48 What are we specially taught by these words, 'before me', in the first commandment?

These words, before me, in the first commandment teach us, that God, who seeth all things, taketh notice of, and is much displeased with, the sin of having any other God.

→ Open Q.48
Q.49 Which is the second commandment?

The second commandment is, Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: thou shalt not bow down thy self to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me; and showing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.

→ Open Q.49
Q.50 What is required in the second commandment?

The second commandment requireth the receiving, observing, and keeping pure and entire, all such religious worship and ordinances as God hath appointed in his Word.

→ Open Q.50

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